dude, can i just say, i'm pretty dang sure we'll be REALLY good friends soon...and by soon i mean now. I really understand what you mean, your struggles are my struggles. i'm hitting a rough patch with my boyfriend as well...its kinda weird cuz sharon and tamara know him (hi sharon and tamara). i don't really know if this is the place the share or if there is like another entry thing? so I'll wait to someone tells me the go ahead...but girl...we should talk...hahaha